Helvi Rose Kotanen (nee Lindholm) passed away peacefully on August 6, 2024, at the age of 99, at Pioneer Ridge in Thunder Bay, ON.
Born on October 1, 1924, in Port Arthur, ON., Helvi lived a rich life marked by her unwavering kindness, gentle spirit and loving heart.
She met her beloved husband Ray in her hometown. After marrying, Ray and Helvi resided in Cameron Falls where he was employed by Ontario Hydro.
They started a family and built a life filled with love and laughter. 15 years later, Ray and Helvi were transferred back to Port Arthur.
Helvi was predeceased by her husband Ray and Grandson Robbie Jr.
She was the cherished mother of Robert (Tuula), Donna and Nancy, Grandmother to Kandace and Kyle, Great Grandmother to Kristina and Kingston.
All of her family held a special place in her heart.
Her sense of style was impeccable and she carried herself with elegance.
Those who knew Helvi will remember her as the epitome of kindness with her gentle demeanour, soft spoken words and tender gestures.
Rest in peace, Helvi Rose Kotanen. Your story lives on in the love you shared, the beauty your created, and the gentle kindness that was your gift to the world.
Excerpt from "Let Me Go"
Written by Christine Georgina Rossetti
When I come to the end of the road,
And the sun has set for me,
I want no rites in a gloom filled room
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little - but not for long.
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love that once we shared.
Miss me, but let me go.
For this is a journey we must all take,
And each must go alone.
It's all part of the master plan,
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick at heart,
Go to the friends we know,
Laugh at all the things we used to do.
Miss me, but let me go.
